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I am a
frustrated, wanna-be jock!!
I played some basketball into junior high school (landing an
unofficial 'sixth man' award)... Then during my sophomore year
my two worlds (music and sports) collided and I heard first hand
the ignorant blathering of some the coaching staff and their
opinions about the music program of which I was also proud to be
a part and how we 'looked like idiots' performing our field
show. I felt it was decision time and I walked away from sports
and never looked back as they say...
After I got out
of school I took up tennis and played for fun and
eventually found my way into local tournaments, playing singles
and doubles and never coming close to winning anything. As I am
in the Northeast I can only play tennis about half of the year
(if I'm lucky) so I needed something indoors for the rest of the
year. Gerry Lemo, a local photographer, nature fan and tennis
adversary, introduced me to a recreational volleyball
program at the local YMCA and I was hooked.
While playing
recreational volleyball at the 'Y' I met Dave Hersh (soon to
become one of my best friends and owner of the
Silvermine North
chain) who invited me to join his team in a power league also at
the 'Y'. As my skills and understanding of the game began to
develop Dave suggested I try out for the
U.S.V.B.A. team
there at the 'Y'. This was a traveling team and member of the
Iroquois Empire
Volleyball Association of New York. The team ran a complex
6-2 offense and a rotation defense (this is definitely NOT your
high school gym class or backyard party type volleyball) and
though I wasn't very tall I had those drummers hands which
adapted well to the position of setter (kind of the
quarterback on a volleyball team).
After a few years
playing on the lower level teams I got a shot to play with some of the big boys - the upper
echelon players of the club. The tryout went great and I was
asked to play with them all the time!! This lasted about a week
and until I fell victim to politics and a couple of big time,
lesser skilled
whine-asses and the following practice I found myself back with
the lower squads again (with the whine-asses). The club only lasted another
season or two then the 'Y' pulled the plug on all volleyball
('the gym has to be open in case someone wants to shoot baskets'
- another great piece of logic).
Along about this
time Dave started coaching the women's volleyball team at a
local junior college and asked me to be his assistant coach - I
was thrilled and jumped at the opportunity!! He also picked up
the volleyball PE classes at the college and asked me to assist
there also. He formed a USVBA team at the college and I left the
'Y' to play on the college team.

This was a great
time for me physically - I was working nights with the band
which left my days open... I was doing the PE classes from 8:00am
- 2:30pm every day with pickup games during the half hours
between classes, the college's women's team then practiced from
3:00pm - 5:00pm every day, I still played in the power league at
the 'Y' every Monday night, I was now running the 'Y's'
recreational program every Tuesday night, the men's U.S.V.B.A.
team practiced every Wednesday night at the college and I was
assistant coach for a women's USVBA team that practiced every
Thursday!!! I don't think I could WATCH that much activity
without several naps currently...

Anyway... The
women's team won their NJCAA conference 4 out of the 6 years we
were there... the men's USVBA team actually went to regionals
one year... I blew my knees out several times (usually the left
one) and I ended up shaving my head at the start of my last
season... I probably should explain...
At the end of the
previous season the team I was on at the college played in a
tournament hosted by our old team from the 'Y'. At the end of
pool play my team was in first place heading into the playoffs!
I've seen this before but I was always on the short end - if I
played on team A, team B won and vice versa... I was
really beginning to develop a complex!! During the downtime
between matches I commented to my team how I've never played on
a winner and if we won this tournament I'd shave my head (I
really used to have hair you know - even a short tail at this
time). Well you guessed it - we won the tournament!! It was all
the sweeter because we beat my old 'Y' team (and some of those
very same whine-asses) in the finals!! My team didn't forget my
promise and the first practice of the following season they were
waiting for me - clippers in hand and shaved me bald as a baby's
backside!!

As my volleyball
career was coming to a close another of my best friends, Tom
Sullivan (who was playing bass in a trio with me called
'Voyager'), was urging me to take up golf. I had always
thought of golf as an expensive hobby and never tried it for
fear of liking it too much. But tennis opponents were getting
scarce and in the spring of 1994 my cousin Brenda's husband
Eddie Reeve called from Long Island to tell me he had just
purchased some new clubs. I congratulated him and he told me he
was sending me his old clubs and would be up in a few weeks -
'LEARN TO PLAY'! Tom and his wife MaryAnn have been playing as
long as I've known them (Tom came within 1 point of getting his
PGA card not too long ago and continues his quest) so I told him
what happened and begged for some lessons. He gave me a book by
one of golf's immortals and wouldn't let me touch a club until I
finished it.
I am still
learning to play (what golfer isn't) and in May of 2003 I hit a
personal high point (low point in golf terms) - I shot a 91 at
Cronin's Golf Resort in Warrensburg, NY. Tom is now working at
Saratoga National... I visited him there in early June of 2003
and he made some changes to my grip and swing which I am finally
beginning to understand - what a difference... and my roller
coaster of a score is now starting to go down again finally!!
I'm so close to cracking 90 I can taste it!!! Then of course
fate intervened and my back went out while executing a beautiful
shot on a par 3... I got the bird, finished the round and could
barely walk for over a month... I came back the end of August
but was so tentative my score ballooned back up... so much for
2003.
The fact that I
was able to play at all again in 2003 is due entirely to
Physical Therapist Dr. Stephen Basin in Glens Falls... I was
upright after a single visit... felt much better after 3 visits
and the exercises he showed me that I continue today has my back
feeling better than ever!!
Then I lost the
entire 2004 season!!! No golf, no biking, no activity at all
(other than playing drums)... Played a couple of 'heavy hitting'
drum gigs over 2004 Memorial Day Weekend and came away with an
acute case of tendonitis in my right elbow... wore a brace all
summer (so I could get through the plethora of band gigs)...
finally went to the doctor in September (so he couldn't tell me
not to play all summer), got medicated, continued the brace...
In January of
2005, even though the elbow still has a twinge every so often,
after all the blown out knees and a severely sprained thumb, I
accepted an invitation to join a co-ed volleyball league (just
so I can start doing something physical again)!! The team has a
great bunch of girls and me - the only guy...
In 2006 we were
even more competitive and nearly made the playoffs the beginning
of April!!
I was looking
forward to a very active Spring and Summer but life got in the
way...
I was determined
to enjoy this summer... more family time, more golf, biking,
tennis, etc... Instead, I managed to golf twice and spent the
rest of my free time (mid-June to mid-September) fighting a
battle for a mortgage!! If anyone reading this is considering
going through Wells Fargo Mortgage RUN SCREAMING THE OTHER
WAY!!!
Then there was
the moving and unpacking and settling in, etc...
Thankfully, the
Queensbury Recreation Department's volleyball program kicked
into gear and I was able to play some pickup games in
preparation for the 2007 co-ed league that started on January
16, 2007.
Glens Falls
Recreation Department Co-Ed League
I joined this league
a few years ago at the invitation of Penny and Lisa -
sisters and a couple of great girls and avid softball players I
worked with at a former job... then there's Jackie, Chas, Gurt,
Bob, Jen, Shannon, myself and various others who join us
throughout the season (sorry - I forgot names)...
The team is
called...

2009 schedule
coming soon!!
The 2008 season
started off strong - we looked like world beaters and could
barely recognize ourselves... but we faded mid-season - never
recovering and missing the playoffs by a narrow margin...
there's always next year!!
This year there have
been some changes to the team... we lost our strongest player
Gurt (congratulations on the twins!!) and have added Ben - the
K-6 principal from the district where I work!! It should be a
fun year as always!!
It's early July
2007...
I've managed to hit the golf course a couple times and am
hitting very well thanks to some insightful tips from my good
friend Tom... My back and knees are holding up... the bone spur
in my right heal flares up only occasionally... the only
annoyance I have is a Planter's Facia (I believe that's the
term) - it's a stiffness in my right Achilles' tendon - a result
of my walking a hilly course in 2006.
Bottom line is my
score continues to drop and if I can manage to stay healthy
between moving computers and band gigs this may be the year I
finally break 90!!
It wasn't... only
managed to golf a handful of times... the swing was nice, score
was OK... just not playing enough... busy, busy, busy!!
January 2008 - -
I've almost
recovered from a bad muscle pull in my back and a couple bruised
ribs... just in time for the volleyball league to start! My
weight is down though not from any real physical activity so
we'll have to see just how much wind and strength I actually
have...
April 2008 - -
Volleyball league
went well... miss Gurt but enjoyed playing with Ben... the team
can best be described as collectively bi-polar - one minute
showing flashes of brilliance, everyone in position, talking,
passing, hitting... the next it looks like a group coma...
everyone join hands and we'll try to contact the living!! Still
having a great time...
Lots of snow still
on the ground but the driving range (and even a few courses) are
open... I'll have to check it out (in between work, 3 bands and
the family)...
August 2008 -
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So much for that
theory... the combination of a busy summer at school, lots of
gigs (even though I cut it down to 1 band and some fill ins),
the wife working doubles almost every night, gas prices well
over $4 / gallon, tendonitis flair ups and
my numb feet have pretty much killed the entire summer!! I
packed the clubs and shoes away last year and never got them out
this year - THIS SUCKS!!
I'm still planning
on volleyball this winter and possibly even trying out for a
USVBA team again as I'm about 8 pounds away from my ideal
playing wait from 12 years ago... stay tuned for that!!
January 2009 - -
Set It Up is no
more - the two sisters that led the way are both out with
injuries requiring surgery... my feet are still numb and burning
and I've managed to have a stomach bug 6 times since Halloween!!
What a great winter!!
July 2009 - -
A few more stomach
bug bouts early in the year which seems to have settled down
finally... I called in to visit my doctor and have the blood
work (they wanted me to have back in 2006) and low and behold
I've been diagnosed with Diabetes!! I knew my Dad's genes were
in there somewhere... minor changes in diets... on Metformin twice a day... still feeling fine!! Digging out the
bike and tennis racquets... hoping for lots more golf this
summer and a volleyball team this winter!!
I've managed to
golf once (back in May)... I'm laying a pallet of stone edging
around the house... had the bike out a few times and even played
my first tennis match in 10 years!! That felt great!!
January 2010 - -
Feeling pretty
good... down almost 40 pounds!! My body seems to have adjusted
to the Diabetes medication... The neuropothy in both feet is
annoying but tolerable - except when I'm trying to sleep but
we're managing...
I've played
volleyball a couple times and just got the last minute call to
play on a 'B' level team in a local league... To 'B' or not to
'B'... hell - there's no question... I just want to play!!
Wait - more politics... seems there's no room in the league for
that team... another winter of inactivity... thank goodness I
have a Wii!! :)
June 2010 - -
My wife and
daughter have been biking a little and now that my wife has her
own bike again I'll be able to join them. Haven't had the clubs
out to even hit the range yet... I'm either gigging or catching
up from the combination of late nights and early mornings... the
back is still feeling pretty good so I just have to get my butt
in gear!!
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